My second eldest step daughter, almost 18, met a fella, they bacame bf/gf, you know the score. Anyway, he is 20 and seemed fine, however I did find out he has mental health issues, so I chose to keep an eye on him as I have previous expeience with people like this.

One day he made a couple of lewd comments about a friends daughter, only 13 and looks it, that I overheard so I told him how old she was and left it at that. Last night another friends daughter, 14, and my youngest step-daughter, 14, both came to me in tears.

That little scrotum grabbed my mates daughter between the legs, and then started making extremely crude comments at my daughter, both were very shaken and upset so I threw the lttle wanker out and told him if he ever returned I would cave his face in.

About an hour later he returned with 2 mates and decided he was gonna start performing outside my house until I let my step daughter, the almost 18yr old, speak to him. Obviously I declined his request but he stayed persistent. Through pure coinicidence my eldest step-son turned up with my brother in law, a fucking great tree surgeon, and then the shit really hit the fan.

The ex boyfriend got gobby to my bro in law and got a smack in the face for it, he decided to leave again and off they went. My bro in law and son came in to the house and I explained what had happened, just after I finished elling them the cunt came back again with 3 fellas, then things got serious LOL

I charged straight out the front door with my bro in law and threw myself at the motor, they hadn't even had time to get out lol, and put one of the windows through and then punched the passenger in the face as he tried to get out. My bro in law punched the rest of the side windows out, caved all the doors in and smashed the lights. The fellas tried to escape but drove straight into a dead end so the car got a bit more of a beating and the fella got yet another smack in the face from my bro in law.

He got the hint after this cos 5 minutes later he phoned up saying he was coming back tonight with his crew, lol, and a gun to kill us.

It should be interesting.

Seriously though, would that shit make your blood boil too? It did me, the cuts and bruises I received seem like a fair trade, if anything the wanker got away lightly, when I lose my temper, not very often thankfully, I really lose it and bad shit happens.

What a twat, makes you wonder what your daughter saw in him.

Me, i probably woulda just phoned the police.

I fully intended to phone the feds, unfortunately my temper got the best of me.

What my girl saw in him I do not know my friend, but then what do any of us see in other people? She obviously saw something, she still wants to speak to him now in person, and that aint gonna happen. I have told her phone or nothing. Obviously I cannot stop her visiting him, but I hope she chooses to respect our wishes. No matter what she saw in him, what he did cannot be tolerated and will not be forgiven ever.

I, like all decent people, have an extremely strong desire to protect my family, I rarely have to use violence, it is always my last choice. Unfortunately, you threaten my children and you deal with me. Simple but effective.

My temper rarely wins out in the real world, but sadly for him he pushed my buttons by threatening my little princess, bad fucking move.

TBH last night I would have just kicked his head in had I had the chance, and I really do not like getting like that because I know what I am capable of.

Damn that sucks mate...cowards always travel in packs...please watch out Tak...them little shits are crazy nowadays. Hope everything works out fine for you and your family


*same kinda situation with my ex and her ex-boyfriend&crew...me going berserk and end up being arrested for assault with a deadly weapon (axe)

I hate it when shit like this arises, makes my life even harder.

TBH if he comes back he is just gonna get another helping of fist pie, gun or not. I am not really too worried about the gun part, every little scrote says that nowadays, but most of them have no idea where to actually get one, I do but on the same note I ain't stupid.

I have another mate, ex-military, who has been arrested for chasing the father of one of his sons bullies up the road with an axe. That was actually rather amusing because the fella was gobbing off something chronic, 10 seconds later he was running away begging for his life almost in tears.

Personally I prefer not to get tooled up. If I have to I prefer something a little softer and blunter, like a nice lump of wood or a bat.

Yes it can be very gratifying when confronting someone, who deserves a good beating, with an axe and they start begging and pissing themselves...

LOL I may have to try it someday, get some menial to beg.

Fucking hell!

I'd like to say two things:

Firstly, remind me never to piss you off. Then again, this shouldn't happen, mostly 'cos I'm a decent(ish) person who wouldn't attempt to molest a child. They guy's obviously a prick who thinks such abbohrent behavour is acceptable. I also prefer my violence fictional, y'know, like the good films here.

Secondly, as mentioned above, the little fuckers just don't give a shit these days. (At least here, in certain parts of the UK, I don't know where you are, but I imagine it's not that different.) Individually their rarely a problem, together though, when their gang bravado/mentality prevails they can be dangerous. DON'T be afraid of involving the police before things enter a potentially dangerous cycle of confrontation.

Be careful chap.

Do not fear guys, I have my sensible head on today and will attempt to avoid any confrontation.

@Perkin, unfortunately I know many dodgy people and am constantly exposed to the less desirable side of society. I know fully well what these little punks are capable of, but then again I know what I am capable of, and it aint just mindless thuggery. I have guests this evening anyway, the kind of people you do not piss off if you can help it. My brother in law and his family take shit from no-one, they have zero tolerance LOL

If I post later on tonight you know I survived, but just to be safe the kids are all away tonight, they need the protection.

well, hes 20, the 2 girls are 14. I'd call the police & report him as a kiddy fiddler, lets see how many of his big mates will bother with him when hes in court for being a pedophile.

Unfortunately kiddy fiddlers deserve only one thing, and reporting them to the feds is not one of them.

THE BASTARD!!!! I thought you handled it pretty well. I hope those girls are doing ok. If i was in your situation i don't know if i could stop banging on his/they're head(s). Like you said i don't loose my temper quick but when that point is passed my mind just goes blank and most of the times when that happened the others involved weren't that pretty afterwards. I don;t like it when i'm going bananas but sometimes it's just plain necessary IMO. Thankfully i have my girl that knows when i'm about to pop.
Going to the coppers isn't a idea that would come to my mind cause i had my own problems with them. Let's just say i'm not too fond of most of 'em.
I hope for your 'family's' sake everything turns out ok.

Well he never came back. He rang us on the phone though, lol, I think he thouht we were scared or something.

As I initially suspected he is nothing more than a stupid coward who like throwing his weight around with kids. To me that makes him, amongst other things, a bully.

Glad to see you alive, man! Anyways, the fuckin prick desesved a lot worse, like someone going medieval on his ass!

Handled fine.


I forget how old you are (as in IDK), but I'm sure getting arrested for beating a 20 yr old wouldn't be good. Its always fuckin nosey neighbors.... anyway he deserves slow torture preferably in a dark dank basement.

Also, I'm sure I don't ned to tell ya, but that girl needs a firm talking too and hopefully she won't have to learn the lesson the hard way. The lesson being NOT to associate yourself with douchebags, which is hard for girls to do.

LOL he gave up, first he phoned and said if we paid the damages to his mates motor he wouldn't press charges. We declined and reminded him we know where he lives LOL End of matter.

My age, almost 32 now. My neighbour would be cool, it was his daughter that received the first crude comments, and he feels the same way about kiddy fiddlers as I do. People like that are really fucked in the head, some shitty wiring. They cannot be 'fixed', they view children the way us blokes view women, from a sexual POV.

The chances of him gettng his head sorted are about as likely as a shrink convincing me I should be gay, it aint gonna happen because I only see women in a sexual way, not men and certainly not children.

My step-daughter is starting to see the light, although I did have to demonstrate how strong men actually are. She started giving it the Charlie big potatoes about fighting men like that off. I simply grabbed her with one arm around her arms and body and told her to escape. She quickly realised that she could do nothing to make me let go, the angle I was holding her prevented any real movement.

After that demo I pointed out that I only used 1 arm and zero violence, also pointed out that I am only a small fella.

She has also been reading a couple of articles online about child molestation and how it wrecks people for life, also a few things about rape victims. Maybe overkill, but she honestly had no idea how strong men were, she was used to dealing with boys. Unfortunately I have had to point out how evil and twisted people can be, not something I wanted to do but she was not listening to reason.

ATM she is soaking this info in and chatting to me about it, she seems to be seeing sense finally.

On reflection I feel a strange confliction, despite how I sound on here I actually hate violence, yet I am more than capable of using it. On the flipside he deserved more than he got, but I just wish it had not been me that had taken part in it, it scares me how far I want, and try, to go, and even worse it scares my family. Trouble is I want to do more violence to him because he has had this negative effect on me and my clan, a strange and counter productive circle that I shall endeavour to avoid.

Thanks for listening guys, it has helped to vent my emotions on this matter, and that can only be a good thing.

you handled the situation very well mate...you stood up for your family...nothing wrong with that imo

and there was me thinking TaKYoN was a redneck and lived on a trailer park.


I don't get the hyper violent culture of some people's lives, but when you put it that way its understandable that the guy got his head kicked in

I really do not like violence, it is very rarely used and never planned. Like I said before, it was more a spur of the moment thing. My family was threatened and it had to be sorted out pretty sharpish from my perspective.